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Jun 2023
31m 35s

Practical Steps To Move From Anxious and...

SHERRY GABA AND CARLA ROMO
About this episode

This episode first starts with Sherry and Carla reflecting on embracing life’s journey without harboring regrets. They discuss how to find value in the ups and downs and recognize the positive outcomes that have emerged from past experiences. They take a Love Fix question about learning during conflict rather than turning away. Then, they are joined by Dr. Christina Reese, a highly experienced licensed clinical counselor who has dedicated the past two decades to helping children and their families affected by trauma. As an internationally recognized trainer, she works extensively with mental health professionals, specializing in trauma-informed schools, classroom mental health, attachment, and trauma in children. Dr. Reese is also the proud owner of Felicity Counseling Services. Her authored books, including "Attachment Puzzle Pieces," "The Attachment Connection," "Trauma and Attachment," and "Leveling Up," showcase her expertise in the field. Driven by her deep passion for attachment theory, she firmly believes in the transformative power it holds for building secure relationships in all areas of life.

 

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Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love 

 

Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.

 

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What are the different attachment styles?

  • Why is it important to understand what attachment styles you have?

  • Are we stuck with the same attachment style for our whole life?

  • How we get our attachment styles and the ways it develops in childhood.

  • The four steps to secure attachment.

  • How we can start small to build trust instead of giving it away freely from the beginning.

  • The importance of grounding techniques.

  • How somebody who has an anxious style can move towards a secure attachment, and someone who's an avoidant can move towards a secure attachment.

  • What’s the difference between recovery from codependency and recovery from avoidant attachment?

  • More on Christina’s attachment work, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence.

 

Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.

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