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Apr 2023
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067: How To Encourage Children To Do The...

Julia Pappas, Psychologist & Parent Coach
About this episode

 

Let's talk about encouragement...

When we know that children can do better, it is hard not to want to encourage them to do better. Right? We want them to do well. In fact, we want them to do their best. But will they?

 

It all depends on how we approach these situations. The ones when we see a difference between where our child is currently at and where they can be... How do we encourage them in a way that is actually helpful?

 

Tune into this episode, to find out!

 

 

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