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Apr 2019
23m 39s

Chores, Fortnite, Authority, Respect. Ki...

KIRK MARTIN
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Do you agree or disagree with Kirk’s shocking advice for handling a child who yells at his Mom and defies her authority? Learn why some kids shut down and aren’t motivated. What do you do when one child takes all of your energy and attention? How do you help kids who give up when work becomes difficult? This is a fantastic podcast so don’t miss this one.

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