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Mar 2023
44m 51s

#42 - Dealing with FOMO & comparing your...

Rowena Tsai & Vivian Van
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After scrolling on Instagram or TikTok for three hours, you feel rejuvenated, refreshed, supported, and you’re ready to take on the day…. said no ever lol. Why do we obsessively check social media to see what others are doing only to feel crappy about ourselves when comparing your life to theirs? This week we talk all about FOMO (fear of missing out) and th ... Show More
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