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Oct 2022
25m 30s

#71: WTF Are Anxious & Avoidant Attachme...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

You might've heard  about Attachment Styles, but what ARE they really? What's it feel like being someone with Anxious vs. Avoidant style? Are we born with them, or do they develop?

Buckle up, because in this episode not only will you learn some fascinating "behind-the-scenes", but also how to navigate these attachment styles for yourself and your relationships - all this and more with the help of our imaginary friend, "Jimmy" and his "sippy cups!"

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

  1. Why people develop attachment styles and how it starts
  2. What it's really FEELS to have  Anxious, Avoidant, and Disorganized attachment styles
  3. Practical tips on how to understand attachment styles better and learn how to deal with it in your own life and relationships

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships. 

Got An "Aha!" Moment? Take a screenshot this episode, share it with the world, tag me @bygloriazhang on Instagram, and let me know your thoughts!
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MENTIONED IN PODCAST:

  1. Read this book about attachment styles - Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment by Amir Levine
  2. How To Heal & Attract Secure Relationships:  Register for my popular free workshop where I reveal my proven 3-step process of how to create thriving relationships by healing your inner child.

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FREE RESOURCES:

  1. Download Gloria's FREE Guide to Inner Child Healing.
  2. How To Heal & Attract Secure Relationships:  Register for my popular free workshop where I reveal my proven 3-step process of how to create thriving relationships by healing your inner child.
  3. Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!

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