In today’s episode we are diving deep into the ambivalent attachment style, where it comes from, how it shows up in your relationships and how you can start rewiring it. If you often feel like you’re too much and not enough or constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop in relationships, this one is for you. Understanding Attachment: o Attachment is a bi ... Show More
Dec 17
Unfiltered: honest end of year reflections
Our last poddy of 2025.As the year draws to a close, we’re slowing things down and reflecting, not with pressure, resolutions, or tidy endings, but with honesty, tenderness, and care.In this episode, we talk about what 2025 has asked of us, what we’re proud of, and what we’re gen ... Show More
1h 8m
Dec 3
Unfiltered: Better Boundaries or Shittier Friends?
Are we genuinely getting better at setting boundaries… or are we using the language of boundaries to avoid discomfort, depth, and accountability?In this episode, we dive into the cultural shift happening inside modern friendships where self-protection is celebrated, but sometimes ... Show More
45m 41s
Nov 19
Deep Dive: The invisible pain of estrangement
<p>Howdy psychology gang! Welcome back to a deep dive.</p><p><br/></p><p>Estrangement is one of the most painful and least understood experiences we can go through. It’s a loss without a funeral, a grief that doesn’t receive casseroles, community support, or cultural acknowledgem ... Show More
40m 17s
Mar 2025
#181: The Demonisation of Avoidant Attachment (& Why It Has to Stop)
<p>In today’s episode, I’m diving into a topic that’s both close to my heart and foundational to how I approach this work: the widespread demonisation of avoidant attachment — and why we need to stop doing it.</p><p>It’s all too common, especially in online spaces, for people (of ... Show More
26m 39s
Jun 2025
#193: The Gifts of Anxious Attachment
<p>While it’s easy to focus on the struggles of anxious attachment — overthinking, people-pleasing, fear of abandonment — there are also real gifts that often go hand-in-hand with these attachment patterns. When held with awareness and intention, many of the traits we associate w ... Show More
12m 15s
Oct 3
Why Avoidant Men Struggle to Love (and How to Fix It)
<p>Why do avoidant men struggle so much with love, vulnerability, and connection? </p>
<p>In this video, we break down how avoidant attachment forms, why it creates barriers in relationships, and what can actually be done to move forward.</p>
<p>Topics Covered:
👉 What is attach ... Show More
50m 58s
Mar 2025
How To Heal Insecure Attachment With Julie Menanno
Joined by special guest, Julie Menanno, our hosts sit down to discuss how to heal insecure attachment by focusing on self-awareness, emotional regulation, and developing a secure relationship with oneself. She emphasizes that attachment wounds manifest through self-abandonment, w ... Show More
56m 57s