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Nov 2018
1h 18m

729: Self-esteem is Bullshit

THE ART OF CHARM
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Many of us grew up in a world that praised the idea of having high self-esteem - but what exactly is self-esteem, why have we been wrongly focused on it for so long, and what do we need to focus on moving forward? What to Listen For Why is artificially inflating self-esteem dangerous and how can you avoid doing it to yourself and your kids? What is that se ... Show More
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