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Apr 2024
18 m

How To Change Your Self Talk

Rob Dial
About this episode

In this episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast, we'll be talking about something super important: how to treat ourselves with more kindness and love. I've noticed that so many of you struggle with negative self-talk, and trust me, I've been there too.

So, why is self-love so crucial? Well, it's the key to building confidence and living the life you truly desire. Imagine confidence as a stack of building blocks. Every time you speak kindly to yourself and take positive actions, you're adding another block. But every time you put yourself down, it's like removing one.

The thing is that the way you talk to yourself affects everything – from your actions to how others perceive you. And let's not forget about comparison, especially on social media. It's like a joy thief!

But here's the good news: you have the power to change your self-talk and mindset. It starts with awareness. Grab a pen and paper, jot down those negative thoughts, and then counter them with your achievements and things you love about yourself.

My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. 

It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.
📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/book

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My first book that I’ve ever written is now available. 

It’s called LEVEL UP and It’s a step-by-step guide to go from where you are now, to where you want to be as fast as possible.
📚If you want to order yours today, you can just head over to robdial.com/book

Here are some useful links for you… 

If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:

Instagram 

TikTok

Facebook

Youtube

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