I'll be real with you, I'm hurting. This was a difficult episode to record. Grief is a pendulum and I'm going from acceptance to denial and from anger to peace right now, but I wanted to show up authentically for you guys to talk about legacy, how healing can feel like breaking and that sometimes you have to break down to break through. When you lose somebod ... Show More
Mar 2025
263: How to Get Stuff Done When You’re Grieving and Feel Like Doing Nothing
<p>In this week’s episode, I’m sharing something deeply personal—how I’ve navigated grief while still keeping my life moving forward. Losing my Grandma, Toy, was one of the hardest things I’ve ever walked through, and it completely shifted how I approached work, routines, and eve ... Show More
25m 14s
Sep 2025
How to Let Go of People Who Left (and Those You Must Leave)
Send me a messageOne of the hardest times in anyone's life is when we lose someone who is still alive. Perhaps they cut us off, perhaps we cut them off, or perhaps it was mutual. But either way, the pain, regret, blame, and open wound of hope make this type of loss particularly d ... Show More
25m 26s
Jul 2025
Listen To THIS If You're Feeling Stuck | Ask A Therapist
<p>In today's episode, we're diving deep into some of the burning questions you've been asking us to cover.<br/><br/>Whether you're dealing with loss and grief, navigating relationship issues, struggling with manifestation, or working through health challenges ... Show More
39m 44s
Jan 2025
429: Coping with the Cruel World & Enduring Heartbreak
<p>In this solo Q&A episode of the <strong>Hardcore Self Help Podcast</strong>, I answer two deeply personal and important listener questions. The first comes from a trans man struggling with the impact of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, fear for his safety, and overwhelming feelings of ... Show More
29m 27s
Oct 2025
Why Losing Everything Can Lead to Your Most Authentic Self
In this special episode, John Kim brings together five brilliant voices - Amy Chan, Terri Cole, Dene Logan, Vanessa Bennett, and Daniel Stewart - for a raw and honest conversation about love, grief, codependency, and what it really means to grow. They unpack: Turning loss into a ... Show More
1h 18m