#46. In this *extremely honest* solo episode, Payton speaks on the topic of hyper-independence in dating & relationships. Being independent is great, but is being TOO independent slightly toxic? Let’s chat about it. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsa ... Show More
Sep 10
The Oxytocin Menu, Explained: What Your Nervous System Actually Wants
#263. Everyone's talking about the oxytocin menu, so this week I'm building mine — with a very honest look at what the research actually supports. Built like the dopamine menu, this episode includes Oxytocin appetizers through specials: the 20-second hug, the long phone call, the ... Show More
58m 48s
Sep 3
Beauty Maxxing: the Good, the Bad, & the Ugly, with Caroline Stern
#262. We’re talking about the realities of Beauty Maxxing, the good & the bad, with Caroline Stern. In this episode, we are sharing procedures we’ve undergone, what we regret, and touch on the emotional side of beauty maxxing and the desire to change yourself. How far is too far? ... Show More
1h 17m
May 2023
Ep. 189 - I should be happy on my own
<p dir="ltr">In this episode, we dive into the journey of self-love, worth, and the struggle of wanting a relationship while also feeling the pressure to be content alone. Join us as we explore a refreshing perspective that challenges the conventional belief that you "should" be ... Show More
10m 46s
Jul 2024
Who Is Telling the Press I’m Single?
My bestie Justin Anderson joins me to discuss bailing on a trip last-minute with Mark, getting shady DMs about him being out without me, why it's important to make yourself the priority, microdosing mushrooms and tanning naked on the 4th of July, why we think flirting and having ... Show More
52m 25s
Jul 2023
110. The psychology of hyperindependence
<p>Independence is highly regarded as an admirable personality trait - we are obsessed with people who are self made, who solo travel, pay their own bills and don't seem to need anyone. However, our sense of independence can become problematic when we approach the point of hyper- ... Show More
40m 14s