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Jun 2022
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Hyper-Independence in Dating & Relations...

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#46. In this *extremely honest* solo episode, Payton speaks on the topic of hyper-independence in dating & relationships. Being independent is great, but is being TOO independent slightly toxic? Let’s chat about it.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsa ... Show More
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