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May 2023
10m 46s

Ep. 189 - I should be happy on my own

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

In this episode, we dive into the journey of self-love, worth, and the struggle of wanting a relationship while also feeling the pressure to be content alone. Join us as we explore a refreshing perspective that challenges the conventional belief that you "should" be happy on your own before pursuing a relationship.

 

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