Oct 14
Emotional Awareness Versus Emotional Maturity
You know your attachment style and understand your triggers, but still fall into the same patterns. In this episode, I share personal experiences and relatable examples to explore emotional awareness versus emotional maturity, and how to move from explaining your reactions to pau ... Show More
15m 48s
Oct 8
Your Needs Are Valid...And So Are Their Limits
Are you asking for too much or asking someone who can’t give you what you need? In this episode, we explore the difference between valid needs and unrealistic expectations, how to ask without pressuring, and when to accept someone’s limits or walk away. Your needs matter. So does ... Show More
12m 38s
Oct 5
What Each Attachment Style Sacrifices to Stay in a Relationship
What does your attachment style cause you to sacrifice in order to keep a relationship?In this episode, I explore how anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachment can influence what we tolerate, give up, or mistake for “healing” in relationships, and how to tell the differe ... Show More
14m 1s
Jun 2022
#117 Anxiously Attached with Jessica Baum
On today's expert episode, we are talking about anxious attachment style with seasoned psychotherapist and couples counselor, Jessica Baum. We've talked about attachment theory before on the podcast, but Jessica elaborates more and talks about anxious attachment in relationships. ... Show More
44m 21s
Jun 2025
#53: From Anxious to Secure: 5 Indicators of Healing
In this episode, we explore real-life signs that you're moving from anxious to secure attachment - even if you're still a work in progress. Healing anxious attachment isn't just about feeling less anxious; it's about changing how you show up in love, how you relate to yourself, a ... Show More
41m 28s
Jul 2022
#16: Anxious Attachment, Conflict & Communication
<p>In this episode, we're talking about anxious attachment, conflict & communication. We'll dive into why anxiously attached people struggle with identifying and communicating their needs, how to navigate conflict aversion fuelled by a fear of abandonment, and tools ... Show More
21m 6s
Nov 2022
#36: Q&A: Healing Anxious Attachment, How to Manage Texting Anxiety, Identifying & Expressing Needs, & Dealing w/ Boundaries from Avoidant Partners
<p>This week is a Q&A-style episode, where I'm answering your questions all about anxious attachment! We'll cover what it actually means to "heal" anxious attachment, how to manage anxiety around texting someone, how to identify and express needs as an anx ... Show More
25m 27s
Jan 2024
76 — Healing Anxious Attachment and Finding Secure Love with Therapist Jessica Baum
The fear of abandonment, difficulty managing emotions in relationships, and a need for reassurance are just a few signs you might have an anxious attachment. Attachment issues are on the rise, and they can cause a lot of pain. They often stem beyond just romantic relationships. J ... Show More
44m 16s
Apr 2022
#1: 5 Traits of the Anxious Attachment Style
<p>In this episode, we're unpacking 5 key traits of the anxious attachment style - particularly in the context of adult romantic relationships. We'll talk about the anxious person's high need for love and affection, the fear of abandonment, struggles with uncertain ... Show More
21m 31s
In this episode, I talk about how Anxious Attachment Styles experience relationship anxiety, where it comes from and what it looks like when their attachment system is activated. This episode will shed light on your attachment traumas and patterns.
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