What does setting boundaries in a relationship look like?—-In this episode, I share my experience of lacking boundaries in the past and the impact it had on my attachment style + what setting boundaries has looked like in my current relationship.
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Oct 14
Emotional Awareness Versus Emotional Maturity
You know your attachment style and understand your triggers, but still fall into the same patterns. In this episode, I share personal experiences and relatable examples to explore emotional awareness versus emotional maturity, and how to move from explaining your reactions to pau ... Show More
15m 48s
Oct 8
Your Needs Are Valid...And So Are Their Limits
Are you asking for too much or asking someone who can’t give you what you need? In this episode, we explore the difference between valid needs and unrealistic expectations, how to ask without pressuring, and when to accept someone’s limits or walk away. Your needs matter. So does ... Show More
12m 38s
Oct 5
What Each Attachment Style Sacrifices to Stay in a Relationship
What does your attachment style cause you to sacrifice in order to keep a relationship?In this episode, I explore how anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachment can influence what we tolerate, give up, or mistake for “healing” in relationships, and how to tell the differe ... Show More
14m 1s
Mar 2022
Ep. 25: Selfish Women Have Rock Solid Boundaries!
Is it hard to say no? Do you find yourself in overwhelm, resentment, or feeling taken advantage of? Do you struggle with people pleasing? If so, you're going to LOVE this episode, because it's all about boundaries! I'm sharing some key principles from my new course, Boundaries B ... Show More
21m 12s
Jun 2022
#12: How to Set Boundaries
<p>In this episode, we're talking all things boundaries - what they are, what they aren't, how to figure out what your boundaries are and how to set and enforce them. We'll also discuss why boundaries are the antidote to people-pleasing, the saviour complex and bur ... Show More
19m 40s
Mar 2025
Lessons I’ve Learned For Better Relationships
<p>Do you find that it’s confusing to know exactly what your partner wants? If your answer is yes, then this is the episode for you. </p><p>Welcome to Decoding Attachment Style, the podcast where we dive deep into the art of building healthier, more fulfilling connections - with ... Show More
32m 7s
May 2021
How To Be a Boundary Queen: Tips on Standing in Your Power, Protecting Your Peace, and Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000000;">We hear about boundaries all the time, but what exactly are they? And why do we need them? And most importantly, how do we stick to them? In this episode, I'll share some powerful tips with you on how to know when it's time to set ... Show More
12m 19s