It may seem like a hard answer to find, but friend, if you're debating whether or not to put that foot out the door…that's not a good sign.
You gotta learn to trust yourself, and what your emotions are trying to tell you. Why would you want to stay in a relationship where you're the one who is making all the effort? You can't want it for both of you, or you can't want it for the both of you and expect to have a healthy relationship. In this episode we'll explore:
If he's not calling or making plans, or he's doing the hot and cold dance, why are you doing this to yourself? Why are you putting up with his crap?
Someone is out there who will respect you and your time, and be grateful for the fact that you let him in your life. So why are you gripping that pile of flesh garbage who does nothing but take you for granted?
These questions can be really hard to confront, but you're going to have to approach them and be brutally honest with yourself and him. Maybe you're just not compatible together, and that's ok. You're not a failure, and you didn't waste your time. Now take what you learned from the relationship and find a dude who realizes how lucky he is to have you.
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