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Nov 2021
17m 28s

#90: To My Perfectionists

Mary Jelkovsky
About this episode

This short solo episode is a message to my fellow perfectionists. If you‘ve ever felt like perfectionism is holding you back, listen to this to break free from that.

You will learn a language trick that will help reframe your mindset about being ”perfect” so that you can finally let go of all those toxic pressures and expectations.

Remember: perfect doesn‘t exist, so don‘t strive to be perfect. Instead, allow others to be INSPIRED by the way you embrace your imperfections.

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Make sure to tag @maryspodcast And make sure to get Mary‘s book, The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. It’s a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself. Available in stores and online, worldwide!

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