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Nov 2021
17m 28s

#90: To My Perfectionists

Mary Jelkovsky
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This short solo episode is a message to my fellow perfectionists. If you‘ve ever felt like perfectionism is holding you back, listen to this to break free from that. You will learn a language trick that will help reframe your mindset about being ”perfect” so that you can finally let go of all those toxic pressures and expectations. Remember: perfect doe ... Show More
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