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Jun 2021
20m 14s

#15: What if your Insecurities are Based...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

Have you been teased or bullied about an insecurity that seems to be based on a real thing, or a real fact about you? In today's episode, I will talk about learning how to untangle shame around this and heal your insecurities.

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Episode Highlights:

  • I share my experience growing up with a mom who nitpicked almost everything that I did and a toxic relationship with an ex who planted seeds of body insecurity in me
  • Why insecurities are not really about the "truth", but are about the false meanings that someone attached to your Core Wounds
  • A different perspective on what insecurities really are, which are "thrown rocks" weaponized to hurt you for a bully or abuser's sense of ego
  • Call to Action: 3 journal questions to dissolve your insecurities

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