I can’t remember her name, but I can tell you she was not a happy person.
It was a hot, hazy, and humid Virginia day when I arrived for a class reunion. As I stepped toward the check-in table, a friend of more than thirty years locked eyes with me, broke into tears, and screamed—
“Oh Scott… can you help me? I’m not happy!”
Next, she bolted out of her seat, ... Show More
Yesterday
Ask This Magic Question Today
Happy Friday, my friend. I want to share a question with you that I haven’t pulled out in seven or eight years. It’s a little neuro-linguistic programming trick I learned from a textbook decades ago, and it works almost every time you use it. This week, it cracked open a member o ... Show More
13m 39s
Apr 30
The Day You Think You Have Nothing
Have you ever sat down to do what you love and felt your mind go blank? I felt it 40 minutes before recording. The promise was simple, the list ready. Then, nothing. The main lesson: when your mind feels blank, the problem isn't a lack of options—it’s that you’re not seeing them. ... Show More
14m 5s
Apr 29
Motivation Doesn't Work? Tell That to Your Dopamine
Have you heard that motivation is irrelevant—that only discipline, identity, or systems matter for adults? After thirty years in this field, I've repeatedly seen that the loudest critics end up seeking a boost themselves. Today, I'll show how claims of the demise of motivation ac ... Show More
16 m
Jun 2018
Ep 105: Inner Unworthiness + Self-Judgment
This is for anyone who feels not good enough, like a failure. Maybe you feel like you wasted your life, money, time, heart, career, 20’s, 30’s, fill in the blank. This feeling of not knowing who you are – not knowing why you’re behind everyone else, why you can’t seem to build a ... Show More
34m 34s
Jul 2023
discovering yourself & finding happiness
happy tuesdayyyyy hotties happy to have you back for another amazing episode of the podcast! I fill you in on some self sabotaging and what I’ve been up to in my life, we talk looking forward, raves, current go to affirmations, holding grudges & trusting in karma, how to feel ind ... Show More
1h 15m
Jan 2023
233 - Friday Fix: Are You Afraid to Be Happy?
At first glance, you might wonder why on earth anyone would be afraid to be happy. But if you think about it a little longer, you might recognize a few times in your life when you experienced an aversion to happiness. Perhaps you won an award, and then you felt so much pressure t ... Show More
9m 28s
