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Jan 2023
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182. How Your Attachment Style Impacts H...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

Brace yourself: this concept may just blow your minds.

Attachment styles aren’t just for romantic relationships.

OMG. WHAT?

This was a HUGE epiphany for me, and it definitely didn’t dawn on me until I started trying to figure out why making friends—something that used to be sooo easy as a kid—suddenly felt IMPOSSIBLE as an adult. It took shadow work, breaking down some limiting beliefs, and really delving into my mindset surrounding friendship to realize that it actually had everything to do with my attachment style.

Curious about how your attachment style—whether that’s anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant, or secure—affects the way you make friends in adulthood? Let me lay it all out for you.

 

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