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Dec 2021
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135. Why I Don’t Believe Settling is a R...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

In this episode of the Self Love Fix podcast, I’m sharing a somewhat controversial take that I have regarding the idea of settling when it comes to significant others. 

Spoiler alert: I believe that the idea of settling is a complete myth. And I dive into why that is in this episode, so it’s one you won’t want to miss!

Some topics I cover on this episode are:

  • Everything is a Choice
  • Different Attachment Styles
  • What Do You Actually Want?
  • Shifting to an Abundance Mindset 

Once you shift your mindset and realize that you have the power in every choice you make, your dating world will feel completely different - in an amazing way, trust me!

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