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Oct 2023
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333: The Reality of Real Relationships [...

Monica Yates
About this episode

Today, Monica’s giving it to you straight — the REALITY of real relationships. Like not the fluffy stuff you see on Instagram… but the real-deal of what healthy relationships look like behind-the-scenes [and you might be surprised just how *normal* your relationship actually is!?].

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode has GOLD for you! Monica’s dishing out secrets and giving you an insider scoop on her relationship with her fiancé, and she’s naming the things that others seem to be too afraid to say, but ummm… we’re ALL thinking them!? 😅 

This episode is a breath of fresh freaking air. And there’s something in it for everyone!

So tune in to hear Monica share:

🔥 What healthy relationships are ACTUALLY like behind-the-scenes

🔥 Why it’s okay if your man isn’t into the “woo woo” like you are

🔥 Getting out of the comparison trap with other relationships on Instagram

🔥 Why it’s normal to have doubts *sometimes* in your relationship

🔥 The dangerous overuse of the terms NARCISSIST & GASLIGHTING

🔥 Why not wanting to have sex all the time can actually be healthy

🔥 What the trend of masculine/feminine on Instagram is forgetting to mention

🔥 The part that passion plays in the way we communicate

🔥 Why the ability to call yourself out and not self-sabotage is so vital

🔥 Why we need to change how we’re showing up in relationships

🔥 The importance of boundaries & independence in a relationship

🔥 How to know whether or not you’re in a healthy relationship 


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How To Surrender with Ease Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck/id1449633522?i=1000625379970 

Monica’s Love Story Episodes (3 parts): https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/278-our-love-story-part-1/id1449633522?i=1000589859611

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https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/280-our-love-story-part-3/id1449633522?i=1000590613382 

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Monica’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@monicayateshealth/ 


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