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Feb 2020
17m 39s

How to Forgive but Not Forget

MARK MANSON
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Like a muscle, forgiveness needs to be exercised consistently over a period of time. And just as our physical muscles keep our bodies healthy and strong, learning how to forgive can keep our emotional lives healthy and strong.  
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