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Aug 2019
16m 13s

How To Be Tough & Stop Escalating

KIRK MARTIN
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How To Be Tough & Stop Escalating
Tension is rising as the new school year begins. So how can you be tough with your kids so they listen, without escalating situations? What is one secret to making this coming school year different? It may be entirely different than you thought. 16 minutes of practical, hard-hitting insights.

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