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Jul 2017
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103: How Trauma Affects Our Relationship...

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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Kristen Holbrook is a Registered Clinical Counsellor based in Coquitlam, BC. Kristen offers both individual and couples counseling in her private practice. She has specialized training in the area of trauma and has been trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). In addition to her private practice work, Kristen provides counseling to wo ... Show More
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