logo
episode-header-image
Aug 2017
22m 55s

#095 How To Find Ways to Cope With Despa...

BARBARA STEVENS - BREAKUPS, SEPARATIONS, DIVORCE, SELF HELP, HEALING, SURVI
About this episode

In times of crisis such as a breakup you need to find techniques and ways to deal with your emotions, if you don’t it is very easy to fall deeper into despair. Its not easy to move on when you are experiencing grief, stress and anxiety. In this episode Stephanie Dalfonzo explores the three P’s of pessimism that will keep you in a negative state of mind if you don’t work on making the simple shifts in your thought process to create lasting changes for the better.

When you are going through a breakup it can be difficult to find gratitude, however if you end your day thinking of the things that you are grateful for then sleep may come a little easier for you. If you spend your time imagining the worst and focusing on what you don’t want and what might happen, then that is what will happen, you are attracting more negativity into your life. If you make small changes in your life, stopping the cycle of negativity you will move forward. You can find out more about Stephanie @ stephaniedalfonzo.com and her 4 coping skills link @ stephaniedalfonzo.com/4-coping-skills/

Up next
Dec 2017
#112 How To Survive The Holiday Season As A Single Person with Martha Bodyfelt
As the holiday season is fast approaching anyone who experiencing a breakup, separation or a divorce are possibly dreading this time of the year. Martha offers some practical tips and ideas to get you through not only the holiday season but also any other time of the year that ca ... Show More
22m 47s
Dec 2017
#111 How To Stop Holding Yourself Back And Find Happiness After Your Breakup with Michelle Chalfant
Michelle Chalfant believes your limiting beliefs and the false stories that your tell yourself after your breakup can hold you back from recovering and finding happiness again. When you are going through a breakup you experience a lot of emotions such as shame, anger and sadness. ... Show More
20m 5s
Dec 2017
#110 All You Need To Know About Dating Again After A Breakup With Jenn Burton
In this week’s episode I talk with Jenn Burton on all things relating to dating again after a breakup. Jenn shares some important tips on dating so it can be done your way and on your terms so the experience can be fun and doesn’t have to filled with dread. We talk about how to k ... Show More
20m 47s
Recommended Episodes
Feb 2021
53. Overcoming Depression, Ft. Michelle Williams
Are you feeling low? Hopeless? Overwhelmed by the future? In the world we live in, so many people are struggling with depression.  It can show up in many ways and leave you feeling totally overwhelmed and helpless. But we have good news: it’s conquerable and there is hope! Today, ... Show More
48m 55s
Jul 2020
39: How The Pain of Regret and Heartbreak Stops You Moving Forward...
I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past. Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years. Women who feel they’ve wasted their career so far. Women who still let an old family trauma affect their mood every... sin ... Show More
10m 26s
Jun 2020
Feeling Unstable: For Those Having a Hard Time Emotionally Processing
This is an episode for those dealing with a fragile emotional state and they don’t know what to do with themselves. Who I am speaking to here are those who are overwhelmed and don’t know where to turn. The letters I am getting are not all related to one source of upheaval: Some o ... Show More
48m 57s
Sep 2022
Overthinking Part 3: How to Stop Depressive Rumination
Want individualized support to stop dwelling on the past? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional counselor from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanuts... Depressive rumination is a type ... Show More
12m 32s
Dec 2020
Has Your Breakup Blown Up Your Life?
Breakups and divorce are the second most traumatic life experiences many people go through. It is completely normal to go into shock and have difficulty figuring out how to cope with that initial trauma. It is normal to not know what to do and even feel like you don't want t ... Show More
40m 58s
Feb 2022
339: Surviving Your Breakup
Breakups are hard! So hard in fact, it can be as emotionally challenging as dealing with the death of a loved one. You are not alone in your feelings. It's a part of the human experience and today's show will help you process and deal with your break up in the most productive and ... Show More
50m 51s
Jan 2023
#334 - Megan Hyatt Miller on Changing Your Mindset
What is the greatest obstacle standing between you and the things you want in life? It’s easy to believe it’s bad luck, or some personal failing, or simply the hand you were dealt at birth. But in my experience helping people overcome their personal barriers in therapy and coachi ... Show More
59m 41s
Sep 2020
Ep 134: How to Stop Insecurities From Hurting Your Relationship
If you have insecurities that come up and cause you to push your partner away or cling too closely, this is for you. Maybe you find that you are acting out in petty ways – like, starting fights. Or maybe it comes out in jealousy. When you get insecure, you are taken out of the pr ... Show More
35m 10s
Nov 2020
How to Move From Heartbreak to Happiness with Renowned Divorce Coach Sara Davison
The pain of heartbreak is real and can take your breath away. If you're hurting or struggling with a breakup and you're feeling shocked, betrayed, devastated, and alone, then this podcast is for you. You may feel sad, anxious, angry, and worried about your uncertain fut ... Show More
13m 29s