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Jul 2021
51m 49s

How to FIND YOUR WORTH, Let Go of SHAME ...

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About this episode

As women, many of us have lived lives with moments that bring us shame, fill our hearts with pain, bitterness, and resentment. The thing is, you don’t have to stay in that mental space with negative thoughts and beliefs that say you’re not worthy, you have no value, or that you’re unlovable.

Sarah Jakes Roberts is a woman of faith that breaks the mold and dares to own her scars, be bold, and walk in the truth of all that she is, from every mistake that she no longer allows to define her. She joins me today to help you flip the toxicity of the life you may be holding onto on its head and redefine what it means to create a meal worth serving from your leftovers. 

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SHOW NOTES:

Self Worth | Sarah defines her self-worth and share how her flaws add to her value [2:03]

Shame | Ashamed of her truth and deciding what to create with the “leftovers” [4:38]

Leftovers | Sarah exposes the hidden power of creating from what’s left after the struggle [6:30]

Poison | Sarah on purging the insecurities, fear, false confidence, and false positivity [8:06]

Living Divided | Denying part of your truth, avoiding the ruins, and missing your strength [10:14]

Negative Thoughts | How to look at the root of negative thoughts that echo insecurities [12:11]

Relationship Work | Bring value and purpose into the relationship with yourself [17:46]

Marriage | Sarah’s 1st marriage failing was a symptom and that she could do better [20:48]

Walking Away | Sarah on how to leave bad relationships & questions to ask yourself [24:47]

Incubate Hope | Creating an environment for hope to grow and starving your fears [27:16]

Toxic People | Instead of labeling people as toxic, see that we are all broken [28:28]

Being Hostile | Sarah shares how being petty takes energy and takes away from you [30:13]

Betrayal | Understanding what betrayal communicates to you and knowing it’s about you [34:01]

Inner Circle | Sarah on the value of knowing people’s value and intention for you [38:12]

Success | How success is obedience to the urge and nudge to manifest what’s within [45:27] 


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