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Jun 2021
21m 59s

Your pain is calling you to level up

Erika Cramer
About this episode

Sometimes life gives us hard shit to face.

So I wanna share a burst of inspiration for anyone who has gone through anything difficult in life. 

If you’ve experienced trauma, you’ve had to overcome hard things or you’re CURRENTLY in the thick of the mess…

I have an important message for you my love.

Your pain is here to invite you to look at your life and choose who you want to become.

In this episode I talk about how pain is here to give you a gift, to cause you to look at your life and choose who you want to become. 

That’s the reason why I’m so grateful for my fucked up life. 

ALL the terrible shit, made me who I am today. 

Everything you’ve gone through, everything you’ve endured up until this point has already happened. You can’t change that. 

What you CAN change is how you look at it.

Find the gift in the shit because there is so much power in your pain.


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