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Jun 2021

28m 58s

#242: Different Parenting Styles & Relie...

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

About this episode

What do you do when you and your parenting partner have different parenting styles? Although this question comes from a divorced mom, Erin answers this question for any parents, living together or not on how to build bridges and come together and when to allow each other to parent differently. Then she covers how to address parental guilt, because we all have it, regardless of our circumstances, we always feel like we are falling short somewhere, somehow.

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