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Sep 2019
5m 41s

You Don't Need Closure

LUCIA
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If you've been broken up with and weren't given a clear reason as to why, you probably have a lot of questions that you want answered. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why asking for closure is rarely a good idea, and what to do instead.

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