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Oct 2019
6m 24s

What To Do If You're Dumped Via Text

LUCIA
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When someone breaks up with you by text, it's classless and cruel. What should you do when you're dumped via text? Dating/relationship Lucia has a surprising take on how to handle being broken up with by text, especially if you want them back.

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