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Jan 2021
14m 21s

boundaries

MATTHIAS BARKER
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A discussion on honesty, refusing to manipulate others and the boundaries that promote this. Many of the ideas were inspired by the work of Cloud and Townsend in their book: Boundaries (2017).



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