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Aug 2017
12m 54s

156: Do People Ever DISAPPOINT You

Lori Harder | YAP Media
About this episode
If you’re human (you all are, right?), you’ve likely had several dances with disappointment. And often those disappointments are because someone has let you down (or at least they’ve let your expectations down) at one time or another. I know this may be difficult to hear, but the truth is that when you set expectations of others, you’re always going to be l ... Show More
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