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Jun 2020
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I can't get you out of my head but I nee...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Obsessing about your ex wastes all your time and keeps you in a rut that you can't get out of until you take hard steps to disconnect from them completely. That involves a lot of will power and a lot of knowing that you are amazing, worthy and lovable. Visit for more episodes 
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