What we believe we look like can be highly distorted from what other people see. Similarly, the importance we place on attractiveness can grow like a weed in our minds - unless we correct it from time to time. In this episode we'll cover how you can see yourself realistically, and have a healthy view of your appearance's true importance.
Jul 6
Exhaustion Urges: When Your Brain Is at 12%
In this episode, we’re talking about exhaustion urges: urges to binge, graze, order food, snack compulsively, or keep eating when your system is depleted and food starts to look like the fastest available relief.Instead of focusing mostly on what to do once you’re already too exh ... Show More
24m 40s
Jun 29
Restriction Urges: “Get It While You Can”
In this episode, we’re looking at restriction urges: the urges that say, “Get it while you can.” These urges are often not just about hunger or cravings. They are scarcity alarms. Sometimes the scarcity is physical, like not eating enough or going too long without food. Sometimes ... Show More
21m 53s
Jun 22
What If Your Binge Eating Has Been Working... In a Way?
Bingeing can be painful and costly, but it often persists because it is doing a job.Not working because it is harmless or because you want to keep doing it, but because it may have been doing something important for you. Bingeing may provide relief, comfort, rest, numbness, pleas ... Show More
25m 8s
Apr 2025
E25 - Body Dysmorphia Mirror Mirror… WTF? 😵💫🪞
How many times have you looked in the mirror and thought “ugh” or fixated on something no one else even notices? Yeah, we have too. In this episode, Elijah, Kyla, and Danny dive deep into body dysmorphia and how it messes with our minds in ways that hit differently for men and wo ... Show More
41m 51s
Jan 2022
Ep 162: Chasing Beauty – A painful fixation on our looks
This is an episode for anyone who feels like they are obsessed with being prettier, younger, something-er, in some external way, and you feel that it is reducing your wellbeing in life. This came up when I was interviewed by Melissa Rivers. She asked something like, “What if you’ ... Show More
1h 2m
Jan 2024
do we all have body dysmorphia?? the business of beauty standards
<p>today we’re getting into the very complex topic of body image, yapping about looksmaxing, beauty trends, cosmetic procedures, filters and how it’s hard to trust what we see online (tbh irl too). just remember, you are so much more than what’s on the outside <3 <br>- poki</p ... Show More
44m 13s
Dec 2024
#631: Feeling Ugly or Off?
Do you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t nee ... Show More
36m 47s