When you have an eating disorder, underneath the symptoms, your self-esteem is often shaky. You might not feel good enough at all. You may feel that you are flawed in some way and you may not treat yourself with the respect that you deserve.
You might experience ‘I’m not good enough’ thoughts such as: -
‘I’m boring, I’m not intelligent, I’m unattractive. I’m ... Show More
Aug 23
When You Feel Competitive - the Thinnest, Cleverest, Fittest and Don't Feel Good Enough
In this episode, I explore the need to feel extraordinary in some way, when you have an eating disorder and how this is often a coping mechanism for not feeling good enough. I explore the roots of the issue and how to feel good enough. I hope that you find it helpful. Harriet's S ... Show More
12m 59s
Aug 20
5 Bitter Truths About Eating Disorder Recovery
If eating disorder recovery was just an easy-peasy walk in the woods, picking bluebells and skipping along beautifully curated paths, then you probably wouldn’t be listening to this. Although recovery can lead to some spectacular destinations and a whole bucket of inner peace, th ... Show More
5m 47s
Jul 2021
#450: How to Stop Feeling Awful About Yourself
Beating yourself up, or indulging in the emotion of feeling awful about yourself, when you're not where you want to be isn't effective. It's not a helpful thought pattern, and yet, we find ourselves in places of despair. Despair drives us to desperation, depression and disillusio ... Show More
38m 32s
Jun 2018
Ep 105: Inner Unworthiness + Self-Judgment
This is for anyone who feels not good enough, like a failure. Maybe you feel like you wasted your life, money, time, heart, career, 20’s, 30’s, fill in the blank. This feeling of not knowing who you are – not knowing why you’re behind everyone else, why you can’t seem to build a ... Show More
33m 34s
Sep 2020
Ep 134: How to Stop Insecurities From Hurting Your Relationship
If you have insecurities that come up and cause you to push your partner away or cling too closely, this is for you. Maybe you find that you are acting out in petty ways – like, starting fights. Or maybe it comes out in jealousy. When you get insecure, you are taken out of the pr ... Show More
35m 10s
Apr 2023
How To Have More Self Love
Today I’m going to talk about how to stop doing something that I hear so many people I talk to admit to doing that is self sabotaging you way more than you may even know… So many people that are stuck in ruts, feeling unmotivated, lost, and like they just aren’t living to their f ... Show More
21m 34s