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Oct 2018

17m 57s

#112: Dealing with Toddler Hitting & Bal...

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

About this episode

Hitting is a common problem in toddlerhood. Toddlers are still learning social skills and brain development that is necessary for self-control. Learn how to coach and teach toddlers better ways of sharing frustrations. Also, how should parents balance setting boundaries and building a strong connection since both are necessary in for raising responsible happy kids?

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