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Dec 2020
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#421: 27 Ways to Stop Being a People Ple...

Trish Blackwell
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Trying to please others puts you on a hamster wheel of inadequacy, powerlessness and in insecurity. People pleasing makes us co-dependent and cautious with how we appear to others. It makes us addicts to caring what people think and keeps us stuck in a life of stagnant averageness - average happiness, average success, average relationships. You were made for ... Show More
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