logo
episode-header-image
Dec 2019
1h 5m

887 The 5 Second Rule To Change Your Lif...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

OUR THOUGHTS ARE DREAM KILLERS. The bigger the dream, the more fear you’re going to have. But to grow, you have to take on new challenges. It’s a real catch-22. I’m very curious about fear and self-doubt. In fact, I’m writing a book about it. In this new year, I want to challenge you to change the way you think about the things that scare you. I want you to start embracing difficult situations and stop letting yourself get in your way. Once you do, nothing will stop you. So how can we harness our thoughts so they start to work for us and not against us? On today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I’m re-sharing a previous episode about facing fears with the creator of the “Five Second Rule:” Mel Robbins. Mel Robbins is the most booked female speaker on the planet with a 7 figure speaking business. Oh yeah, she’s also a bestselling author, a former criminal defense attorney, a CNN commentator, happily married for 20 years, and a mom of 3 kids. But what I really fell in love with about Mel was her passion, energy, straight-talking truth, and beautiful vulnerability. I’m pumped to re-share Mel’s incredible wisdom about how she overcame procrastination, fear, and low self-confidence after a devastating career blow and financial hardship. Get ready to laugh, cry, and learn how to master your thoughts to create extraordinary results on Episode 887.
Some Questions I Ask:
Once you mastered your thoughts, did you have no more fear? (13:30)
When did you discover the 5 Second Rule? (16:34)
What area of your life has the 5 Second Rule had the biggest impact? (38:22)
Is there any area of your life that you still lack confidence in? (41:54)
In This Episode You Will Learn:
The definition of habits (the good and bad side of them) (7:19)
Why it’s so important to control your thoughts versus your feelings (11:56)
What anxiety really is (15:45)
How we make decisions (26:05)
The neuroscience behind why the 5 Second Rule works (30:39)
How to use the 5 Second Rule in business negotiations (37:45)
What successful people do in their minds to keep moving ahead no matter how they feel (40:07)
Plus much more…
If you enjoyed this episode, check out the video, show notes, and more at www.lewishowes.com/887 and follow at instagram.com/lewishowes

Up next
Jul 7
The Jonas Brothers Reveal THE TRUTH Behind Their Breakup & Comeback
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!The Jonas Brothers arrived in the SOG studio carrying 20 years of wisdom about surviving fame, failure, and brotherhood in the music industry. Kevin, Nick, and Joe open up about their darkest ... Show More
1h 17m
Jul 4
Navy Seal's 3 Rules for Leadership, Overcoming Near Death Experiences & Breaking The Victim Mentality
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Today’s guest is Retired U.S. Navy Lieutenant Jason Redman. He’s a sought-after speaker, leadership coach and best-selling author of the books, “The Trident: The Forging and Reforging of a Na ... Show More
1h 37m
Jul 2
Use This Mindset Shift To Set You Free Financially
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!The relationship between money and happiness isn't what most people think it is - and Brand Builders Group CEO Rory Vaden proves this through a masterclass that reveals why scattered revenue ... Show More
1h 5m
Recommended Episodes
May 2022
Moment 58 - How To Improve your Life in 5 Seconds: Mel Robbins
In these ‘Moment’ episodes of my podcast, I’ll be selecting my favourite moments from previous episodes of The Diary Of A CEO. This week, I’ve chosen a section from my conversation with Mel Robbins. Mel is the author of The Five Second Rule, a business woman, a life coach, and a ... Show More
11m 48s
Oct 2021
Mel Robbins ON: Why You Can’t Stop Procrastinating & How to Eliminate Self-Doubt in 5 Seconds
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of ... Show More
1h 22m
Jan 2023
Mel Robbins ON: Letting Go of Negative Thoughts & Redirecting Your Energy to Self Transformation
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of ... Show More
1h 29m
Dec 2023
Mel Robbins: "Saying These 2 Words Will Fix Your Anxiety!" The New Trick For Stress, Anxiety & Breaking Every Bad Habit In 2024!
If you enjoyed this video, I recommend you check out my first conversation with Mel, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kOtvoX88J0From changing your life in 5 seconds, improving your relationships, and silencing your inner critic, Mel Robbins has all the tr ... Show More
1h 38m
Oct 2022
The 5 Second Rule That Will Change Your Life | Mel Robbins EP 26
Today's episode is all about the 5 second rule that will help you get out of a rut, overcome insecurity and allow you to achieve your dreams with Best-selling Author, Mel Robbins.   Check out the full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/887-pod 
11m 18s
Nov 2021
Mel Robbins: This One Hack Will Unlock Your Happier Life
Mel Robbins is the author of The Five Second Rule, a business woman, a life coach, and a sensation in the world of self improvement. Her new book is The High Five Habit, it offers simple techniques to feel more confident in yourself and to recognise your true self worth. Mel also ... Show More
2 h
May 2022
TRY THIS For 7 Days To NEVER BE LAZY & Stop Negative Thoughts! (Do This Daily) | Mel Robbins
So it’s safe to assume that you are likely having a biological experience. The external expectations involuntarily placed on you amount to pressure and loss of self-identity, values and beliefs. On the other hand, the internal expectations you willingly place on yourself can put ... Show More
1h 36m
Sep 2021
Stop Holding Yourself BACK & Get INSPIRED to Go After What You Want | Mel Robbins
Check out our sponsors:  Indeed: Get a FREE $75 CREDIT to upgrade your job post at indeed.com/IMPACT MindPump: mindpumpimpact.com NCI: Go to impactwithnci.com Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/impact Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Backcountry: G ... Show More
1h 4m
Apr 2024
5 Small Habits That Will Change Your Life Forever
In this episode, you’ll learn the best expert advice Mel is using right now.For this one-of-a-kind episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel hand-picked the top 5 most impactful, insightful, and exciting pieces of advice and rules for life ever shared by her guests. Listen as exper ... Show More
1h 2m
Mar 2024
4 Ways to Stay Calm When You’re Stressed: This Life Advice Will Change Your Future
In today’s episode, you’re going to learn 4 pieces of advice that will help you act confident when you're stressed, be fearless under pressure, reach your potential, and unlock the magic in your life.If you can’t stop procrastinating, are battling self-doubt, or you just need a r ... Show More
58m 51s