logo
episode-header-image
Oct 2019
38m 48s

Don't Think of the White Bear

Pushkin Industries
About this episode

Once a thought is in our heads, we can't suppress it and trying to only causes us misery. Dr Laurie Santos explains why our brains work in this way and hears from real people who have confronted and overcome disruptive thoughts and bad memories and found happiness in the process. 

For an even deeper dive into the research we talk about in the show visit happinesslab.fm

Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Up next
Jul 7
The Jimi Hendrix of the Cello (with Joshua Roman)
Joshua Roman has been playing the cello everyday since he was three - but then on a concert tour he caught Covid. The illness wouldn't go away and sapped his ability to play the music he loves at the level he was used to. How can things like music help us feel better during tough ... Show More
39m 7s
Jun 30
"Birds Are Like My Afternoon Martini" (Birding with Lili Taylor)
Lili Taylor loves her acting career - but the emotional intensity of her work and the constant travel can take its toll. But Lili has found a way to relax and unwind - watching birds. As Lili explains in her new book Turning to Birds: The Power and Beauty of Noticing - if we stop ... Show More
32m 15s
Jun 23
How Good Manners Made Me Happier (with Etiquette Expert William Hanson)
You might think etiquette is outdated. Who really needs a dinner with nice napkins and four different forks? Etiquette expert William Hanson disagrees. By observing good manners we show others we respect and care about them - deepening our bonds. William (author of Just Good Mann ... Show More
41m 38s
Recommended Episodes
Aug 2022
Understanding Your Brain
Chantel Prat is a brain researcher, a professor at the University of Washington, and the author of The Neuroscience of You: How Every Brain is Different and How to Understand Yours. She joins Erica Chidi to talk about how to better understand our individual brain strengths and wh ... Show More
43 m
May 2024
What’s on your Mind??
Chris and Lauren find out what you can learn from a brain scan!   Dr. Amen shares the truth about how antidepressants and alcohol affect our brain, and what you can do to promote a healthy mind for the rest of your life!   Plus, find out why Dr. Amen scanned his wife’s brain whil ... Show More
46m 29s
Jan 2019
Detox without Deprivation
Deanna Minich, PhD, highlights why our health should be a joy, not deprivation and how her detox focuses on what we can add back in to really nourish the body, mind and spirit. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-po ... Show More
34m 9s
Sep 2018
Side Effects of Loneliness
If ya think you’re lonely now...then you need to listen to this episode. We cozy up to the realities of feeling like an island and how to manage the vulnerability without letting it influence poor decision making! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee ... Show More
50m 53s
May 2020
What is Love?
Baby, don't hurt us. Some thoughts, feelings and science at the heart of love. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 
55m 42s
Jan 2022
59. Be Still: How to Listen to That Something Inside That Always Knows
1. What if we stop trying to figure out whether our feelings and intuition are “right” or “wrong”– and instead, just acknowledge them as real–and move toward them?2. How Glennon is experiencing a little shift in peace, joy, and non-reactivity through her newfound relationship wit ... Show More
45m 32s
Aug 2019
Why We’re Not Broken
“We get into fear, and then we assume what we’re feeling is ours,” says Dana Childs, an intuitive and energy healer. Childs believes that a big part of the anxiety, fear, or even pain we feel—does not always belong to us. And that we have a tendency to take on the feelings (both ... Show More
41m 53s
Jun 2020
SYSK Selects: Research tips from SYSK
People often ask us how we do our research. We're not going to disclose all of our secrets, but we'll give you some tips on how to root out the bad studies from the good ones. Learn all about shady studies and reporting in this classic episode! Learn more about your ad-choices at ... Show More
43m 34s
Dec 2019
Investigating Instead of Reacting
“Investigating what’s underneath the rage can help us then articulate—more clearly—our values,” says Rhonda V. Magee, professor of law at the University of San Francisco and author of The Inner Work of Racial Justice. Magee sat down with Elise Loehnen at In goop Health and gave a ... Show More
50m 48s
Jul 2020
Side Effects of Feelings
In true Cancer season fashion, it’s only right that we not only get in our feelings, but get real about why so many of us are scared of them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 
45m 57s