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May 2020
47m 30s

How to Deal with Defensive People & Unde...

Mike Carruthers | OmniCast Media
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Why are names so hard to remember? This episode begins with an explanation and an experiment that explains why so many of us forget people’s names and what we can do to remember names better. http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/03/the-moses-illusion-explains-why-you-cant-remember-names.html Do you ever get defensive? Actually we all do. We also have to deal wi ... Show More
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