In this episode, I'm answering YOUR dating dilemmas! Hear three real issues from daters just like you. The first question is about what to do after having sex on date two... and they've fallen off the face of the earth after being so charming (ugh). The second one is about moving on after an amazing experience with a great guy who just didn't have time for c ... Show More
Jul 8
183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi
What you wear on a date matters, but not how you might think! In this episode, I’m joined by professional stylist Cassandra Sethi, founder of Next Level Wardrobe, to talk about how to dress with confidence and put together stylish outfits in under a minute. We get into how to cre ... Show More
58m 54s
Jul 1
182. Sparks vs Chemistry: How To Build Chemistry & Stop Chasing Instant Attraction (throwback)
In this throwback episode, I’m breaking down the difference between sparks, chemistry, and compatibility and why chasing the spark can actually hurt your dating life. We’ll talk about what the spark really is (spoiler: it’s brain chemicals), why it fades fast, and what matters mo ... Show More
25m 14s
Jun 27
5 Lessons About Dating & Money From "Materialists" (Bonus Ep!)
In this bonus episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the new movie, "Materialists." I'm breaking down what this film says about love, money, capitalism and dating for the long term, and what it got right about today's dating culture. If you haven't seen this movie yet, beware of spo ... Show More
24m 59s
Jun 2024
149. q&a: london dating drama, ghosting & festival fun
welcome back! in this episode, we’re spilling the tea on what dating in london is really like. from love bombing and ghosting to the struggles of dating without wanting a relationship, it’s all here. i share my personal experiences, including being ghosted and dealing with the ic ... Show More
20m 12s
Apr 2
290: The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time? We break down the p ... Show More
1 h
Jul 2024
It’s OK To Lie On Dating Apps Sometimes
Double-standard debates in the dating world are weighing on us today, specifically those that are more of an issue for women than men. Before diving into emails, Jared and Jordana discuss the backlash to a Forbes article, “Are We Still Not Ready For A Mixed-Weight Romance On Scre ... Show More
1h 25m
Aug 2024
(Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again
Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?” The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that m ... Show More
34m 10s
Oct 2024
(Matt Monday): The Hidden Reason They’re Not Committing to You...
Have you ever found yourself in the “casual zone” with someone you’re dating . . . and it seems impossible to escape it? When it started, you were fine with them saying, “Let’s see how it goes,” but you soon found yourself stuck in limbo with all your friends asking if you were i ... Show More
18m 26s
Sep 2024
Why Chase Men Like They’re The Prize? - On Cheating, Being a 'Pick Me' & Dating Lessons ft. Lisa Gilmore
EP97: When it comes to dating, we’ve seen it all—and now we’re ready to spill. In this episode, Lisa and I are unpacking the wild lessons we’ve learned from our dating adventures. We’re diving into the non-negotiables we swear by, the red flags we’ll never ignore again, and why t ... Show More
47m 37s
Oct 2024
Ep. 261 - How to 10x your dating potential without going on 100 dates
Feeling stuck in your dating life, overwhelmed by advice, or just underwhelmed by the experience? This episode is for you. Today, we dive into a powerful coaching session that transformed one of my clients, helping her break free from the confusion and struggle (hustle) of dating ... Show More
11m 57s
Nov 2024
Solo Episode: What to do when everything is falling apart
On this week's solo episode, I discuss why sometimes, losing everything you have is the key to getting everything you want. If you're wondering how to keep your life together when it appears to insist on falling apart, tune into this episode as we chat about how your "all is lost ... Show More
52m 35s