In this episode, I'm answering YOUR dating dilemmas! Hear three real issues from daters just like you. The first question is about what to do after having sex on date two... and they've fallen off the face of the earth after being so charming (ugh). The second one is about moving on after an amazing experience with a great guy who just didn't have time for c ... Show More
Aug 19
189. How to Get Closer Without Doing ALL the Emotional Labor (10 Tips)
In this episode, I’m breaking down 10 practical, low-pressure ways to build emotional closeness that feel fun, natural, and mutual so you’re not stuck carrying all the weight of “going deep.” I’ll show you how to connect through shared experiences, create emotional safety, and bu ... Show More
44m 28s
Aug 15
Comparing Notes Pt 1: The First 3 Months of a New Relationship w/ Ali Jackson
Welcome to part 1 of Comparing Notes, a new mini series I'm doing with my friend, Ali Jackson of Finding Mr. Height! This entire series will cover the different stages of a new relationship: what to expect, what to focus on and how to get through it with grace. In this episode, w ... Show More
1h 10m
Aug 12
188. 7 Tips For Dating Multiple People In The Early Stages (throwback)
Maybe you’ve heard the advice to “date multiple people,” but you’re not sure how it actually works, if it’s even possible for you, or why you’d want to try it. In this episode, I’m sharing seven tips on how to approach dating multiple people before getting into a relationship. Mu ... Show More
31m 48s
Jun 2024
149. q&a: london dating drama, ghosting & festival fun
welcome back! in this episode, we’re spilling the tea on what dating in london is really like. from love bombing and ghosting to the struggles of dating without wanting a relationship, it’s all here. i share my personal experiences, including being ghosted and dealing with the ic ... Show More
20m 12s
Apr 2025
290: The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time? We break down the p ... Show More
1 h
Jul 2024
It’s OK To Lie On Dating Apps Sometimes
Double-standard debates in the dating world are weighing on us today, specifically those that are more of an issue for women than men. Before diving into emails, Jared and Jordana discuss the backlash to a Forbes article, “Are We Still Not Ready For A Mixed-Weight Romance On Scre ... Show More
1h 25m
Aug 2024
(Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again
Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?” The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that m ... Show More
34m 10s
Oct 2024
(Matt Monday): The Hidden Reason They’re Not Committing to You...
Have you ever found yourself in the “casual zone” with someone you’re dating . . . and it seems impossible to escape it? When it started, you were fine with them saying, “Let’s see how it goes,” but you soon found yourself stuck in limbo with all your friends asking if you were i ... Show More
18m 26s
Sep 2024
Why Chase Men Like They’re The Prize? - On Cheating, Being a 'Pick Me' & Dating Lessons ft. Lisa Gilmore
EP97: When it comes to dating, we’ve seen it all—and now we’re ready to spill. In this episode, Lisa and I are unpacking the wild lessons we’ve learned from our dating adventures. We’re diving into the non-negotiables we swear by, the red flags we’ll never ignore again, and why t ... Show More
47m 37s
Oct 2024
Ep. 261 - How to 10x your dating potential without going on 100 dates
Feeling stuck in your dating life, overwhelmed by advice, or just underwhelmed by the experience? This episode is for you. Today, we dive into a powerful coaching session that transformed one of my clients, helping her break free from the confusion and struggle (hustle) of dating ... Show More
11m 57s
Nov 2024
Solo Episode: What to do when everything is falling apart
On this week's solo episode, I discuss why sometimes, losing everything you have is the key to getting everything you want. If you're wondering how to keep your life together when it appears to insist on falling apart, tune into this episode as we chat about how your "all is lost ... Show More
52m 35s