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Nov 5
1h 6m

Why Do I Need So Much Reassurance?

Kati Morton, LMFT
About this episode
Do you keep asking people if they're mad at you, even after they say no? Licensed therapist Kati Morton explains why reassurance seeking feels good for five minutes before the doubt comes right back, and what to do instead. We cover support seeking vs. reassurance seeking, why relief wears off so fast, how an unpredictable past can make someone else's mood ... Show More
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