EP 690: How to Become Securely Attached:...

If you still get anxious when someone pulls away, does that mean you haven't healed?

"Heal your nervous system" gets thrown around constantly, and almost nobody explains what it actually means. So in Part 2 of this series, I'm breaking it down in plain language, in the context of your attachment style and your real relationships. I've spent years living in disorganized attachment, and I've helped over a thousand people become securely attached. Here's what I know: secure attachment was never about becoming permanently zen. It's something far more doable, and far more freeing.

Inside the Episode:

• The two words that should replace "stay calm" as your healing goal
• Why your partner's support might be making you feel worse (and what the research says about it)
• The one question to ask after you get triggered that shows you exactly how far you've come

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