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People Pleasing vs. Fawning: Why We Do I...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Dr. Rick and Forrest talk about what separates people-pleasing from the fawn response, and why those differences affect what actually helps. They trace the surprising history behind both ideas, explain each’s relationship with trauma, and answer common questions along the way. They discuss why old friendships pull you back into old patterns, when appeasement ... Show More
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