David JP Phillips reveals how to hack your internal chemistry—on demand—to show up with confidence, presence, and power when it matters most. Drawing from his best-selling book High on Life, David breaks down the six key neurochemicals that control your behavior (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol), and shows you how to inte ... Show More
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Learn to Read Anyone, with Sabine Charles
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416: How to Negotiate When Others Have Power, with Kwame Christian
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1h 1m
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4 Principles of Influence from a Hostage Negotiator | Scott Tillema
In this episode of The Art of Charm, retired SWAT hostage negotiator Scott Tillema shares his battle-tested four-part framework for leading difficult conversations, defusing high-stakes conflicts, and influencing others with clarity and confidence. Trained by the FBI and Harvard, ... Show More
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3 PROVEN Strategies to Winning Every Negotiation (Command the Room!)
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1h 17m
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What's a simple negotiation trick you can try today? How can you get better at persuading others? Today, Jay welcomes former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator and author of "Never Split the Difference", Chris Voss. He is renowned for his innovative negotiation strategi ... Show More
1h 44m
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THIS Is How You Negotiate
<p>#73: <a href="https://www.blackswanltd.com/home">Chris Voss</a>, former FBI lead hostage negotiator, known for his negotiation philosophy on tactical empathy, teaches us how to negotiate our way through any situation. You’ll learn:</p><ul>
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1h 3m
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228. Negotiate Your Way to Success: Empathy, Mirroring, and Labeling
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