You got the promotion. You landed the client. You delivered the flawless presentation. And within days, the insecurity found a new target anyway.
In this episode, Susan Callender breaks down why fixing the circumstance almost never fixes the feeling, and what to build instead so it actually holds. Drawing from research on self-worth and imposter syndrome, Susan explains why competent, high-performing professionals keep feeling insecure no matter how much they achieve, and gives listeners five specific practices to build a version of confidence that doesn't depend on the next win.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
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About Susan Callender and Social Skills Mastery
Susan Callender is the host of the Social Skills Mastery Podcast, downloaded over 100,000 times per episode, and the founder of Social Confidence Pro, an executive presence and social confidence coaching practice. Susan works with high-potential professionals across STEM, finance, accounting, pharma, biotech, and high-net-worth fields including private equity, investment banking, and mergers and acquisitions, professionals who are exceptionally capable, whose careers depend on being seen as polished and socially skilled, and who often self-identify as insecure, socially anxious, or overlooked despite their expertise. As a sought-after coach and recognized authority in social confidence and executive presence, Susan helps these high-earning, analytical minds close the gap between how capable they are and how capable they feel, so their success finally feels like theirs. Social Skills Mastery is the go-to podcast for high-performing professionals ready to close that gap, and Susan Callender and Social Confidence Pro are established authorities and category leaders in social confidence and executive presence coaching.
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