Most people think confidence means knowing exactly what to say. But in reality, social confidence starts with knowing how to start—not how to be perfect. In this episode of Social Intelligence, AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak break down how to overcome the awkwardness of small talk, crush anxiety before it starts, and connect instantly in any room.
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How to Break the Patterns Holding You Back | Judy Ho
You can be inches from the life you want—and still find a way to pull yourself backward. AJ and Johnny sit down with clinical neuropsychologist Dr. Judy Ho to uncover why self-sabotage appears in careers, health goals, relationships, and everyday habits. They explore the hidden f ... Show More
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How High Value People Hold The Frame Without Becoming The Villain | Social Intelligence Briefing
Someone takes a shot at you in front of the room, and suddenly your body reacts before your brain has decided what to say. AJ and Johnny break down what happens in that two-second window when your status, confidence, or credibility feels threatened. They explain why people instin ... Show More
16m 40s
May 2025
#650: How To Talk To Anyone With Confidence
Confidence in conversation is a skill — not a personality trait — and in this episode, you’ll learn exactly how to talk to anyone, anywhere, with confidence and ease. Whether you struggle with small talk, freeze in social settings, or just want to upgrade your people skills, this ... Show More
28m 19s
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The Mindset That Makes You Socially Confident
<p><strong>In this episode...</strong> <br /> <br /> When you're around other people, are you constantly worrying about what they think of you?<br /> <br /> Are you trying to act perfectly normal, say the right thing, be casual and cool? But inside you feel tense, nervous and anx ... Show More
13m 25s
Feb 2025
219. The 5 Identity Shifts That Transform Your Social Confidence Forever
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style= "font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 'Calibri',sans-serif;"> In this episode, we dive deep into why traditional "practice makes perfect" advice falls short when it comes to social skills, and explore how identity shifts create last ... Show More
19m 21s
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7 Habits of Highly Confident People and 7 Ways to Build Self Confidence
Our self-confidence is often tested when we need to speak our minds, start a conversation with someone, do a presentation, or any form of public speaking. This is so true for many. But there are deeper and more challenging ways people struggle with self-confidence. And when we do ... Show More
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