Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Part 4 of How to Break a Trauma Bond. So far, we've learned how to recognize a trauma bond, decide whether to stay or leave, grieve what we thought we had, and stop waiting for the apology. Now comes one of the most transformative steps of all: Becoming your own fixer. Trauma bonds teach us to seek comfort, validation, and relief ... Show More
Jul 14
051- How to Break a Trauma Bond (Part 1)
Send us Fan MailWhat if the reason you can't walk away isn't weakness, but a trauma bond?In this episode, we explore the most important first step in breaking a trauma bond: learning to call it what it is. When you can finally name the dynamic you're experiencing, the confusion b ... Show More
31m 15s
Jun 2025
436: Not Everything Needs to Be Said: The Energetics of Unsolicited Advice
You’ve been told to “speak your truth.” But what if that truth-telling… is actually pushing people away? In this fiery mini-sode, I’m unpacking the energetics and trauma patterns behind unsolicited advice, oversharing, and feeling the need to "educate" someone we don't agree with ... Show More
26m 16s
Jul 2022
E04: The End of Trauma & Suffering: Learning how to Feel, Heal, & Grieve
Send us Fan MailWhen we experience emotional pain, it can feel as if we are the cause. We beat ourselves up and blame ourselves for things that may not have anything to do with us. In this episode, Tarek opens up about his journey through the healing process to overcome the syste ... Show More
50m 11s