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Jul 14
31m 15s

051- How to Break a Trauma Bond (Part 1)

Najwa
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Send us Fan Mail What if the reason you can't walk away isn't weakness, but a trauma bond? In this episode, we explore the most important first step in breaking a trauma bond: learning to call it what it is. When you can finally name the dynamic you're experiencing, the confusion begins to lift, and you can start seeing the relationship through a clearer len ... Show More
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053- How to Break a Trauma Bond (Part 3): Stop Waiting for the Apology
Send us Fan MailWelcome to Part 3 of How to Break a Trauma Bond.One of the hardest steps in healing is accepting that the apology you're waiting for may never come.In this episode, Najwa explores what happens when you stop waiting for validation from the person who hurt you. Whet ... Show More
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052- How to Break a Trauma Bond (Part 2): Should You Stay or Leave?
Send us Fan MailWelcome to Part 2 of How to Break a Trauma Bond.After learning to recognize and name a trauma bond, the next step is often the hardest: deciding what comes next.In this episode, Najwa explores the complicated reality of staying versus leaving a trauma-bonded relat ... Show More
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