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Jul 14
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Episode 518: Why Dead Bedrooms Happen

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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In long-term relationships, couples sometimes find that their sex life gradually fades away. This might happen after having children, or following a stressful period at work. However, there isn’t always an obvious turning point. In today’s episode, we’re taking a closer look at why dead bedrooms happen, how common they are, and how to know ... Show More
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