Everyone thinks men fall in love because of chemistry. According to science? Not even close.
Violet breaks down what actually makes a man go from interested to invested, why so many women accidentally sabotage the early stages of dating, and the biggest mistake people make when they confuse attraction with commitment. From the science of attachment to the p ... Show More
May 28
My Blind Date With an AI Billionaire | A Series of Unfortunate Events
Violet is back with another Series of Unfortunate Events, and this time a blind date turns into one of the strangest nights of her life. There’s a driver, a bodyguard, a hopeless romantic billionaire, and an unforgettable conversation about AI that somehow makes modern dating fee ... Show More
33m 30s
Oct 2025
Am I Settling or Just Being Realistic?
<p>In this solo episode, I get vulnerable about a big life change I’m going through and what it’s teaching me about growth, and timing. I break down two listener scenarios: one from someone in a long-term relationship wondering if they’re settling because the spark feels missing, ... Show More
47m 2s
Jul 2025
London vs. New York dating culture + dating intentionally and KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT.
On today’s episode, I unpack my personal experience between dating in New York vs. London and how British men have been a whole new vibe for my healed, golden-era self. We talk intentional love, love bombing, faith, and what it really means to be seen for who you are versus what ... Show More
47m 18s
Aug 2024
Vegas Cuckold Vow Renewal: Nudist Festivities, Erotic Group Play & Finding Your Tribe
<p>Join Venus, Doc Chocolate, Fun Charlie, and BlondeByTheBay and her cuckold husband as they take you on a wild ride through their unforgettable Las Vegas escapade, where love, cuckolding, and connection collided. <br/><br/>The crown jewel of the Las Vegas adventure was the extr ... Show More
51m 39s
Feb 2024
trust, trauma, & daddy issues: dating men for the plot
<p><strong>podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat:</strong> spiralling on dating men, trust, commitment issues, attachment styles, learned beliefs and biases, conflict, communication, relationship standards and red flags, love, desire, and childhood trauma (as usual, goes wit ... Show More
38m 40s